Some years ago, I was in therapy for several months and the therapist made me realize that I had been looking for a mirror, not for a fiend. I had been looking for someone who I could look myself at. I had to change my approach, this was right.  

I had always been looking for someone who agree with, who discuss with and not suffer from disagreeing, from being criticized, from being told what right, and what wrong. I thought that someone, ˜hat mirror?would avoid me changing my very close approach to the world. My hand was very close, didn`t admit any kind of openness. But I had not been able to find such a kind of person. I had been searching at school, at private English classes, and so on.  

But after that, I started to look for someone a bit more real, more human, more common. A friend who does not agree with everything, who discuss, who can advice you, is a much better option to have good time and fun together, to go dancing, to listening to music, to talk about different topics not necessarily the same as you have always held discussions about.  

What a such boring world, it would be one composed, only, of similar people to you. But that world, I think, does not exist or at least I do not live in. I have not found such a person. Have you?

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